Here is a generic formula to calculate the nth day of a given month in a given year...
=DATE(Yr,MM,1+7*Nth)-WEEKDAY(DATE(Yr,MM,8-DoW))
where Nth is the number you want 1st, 2nd, 3rd etc and where DoW stands for day of the week with Sunday starting with 1, Monday with 2 and so on. For example, if you want the 3rd Wednesday in the month for the date in cell A1 it would look like
=DATE(YEAR(A1),MONTH(A1),1+7*3)-WEEKDAY(DATE(YEAR(A1),MONTH(A1),8-4))
Of course, you can complete the mathematical operations to "neaten up" the formula...
=DATE(YEAR(A1),MONTH(A1),22)-WEEKDAY(DATE(YEAR(A1),MONTH(A1),4))